When You Have Decided That Enough Is Enough
Roland Bal’s 6-module, 13 chapters, program gives you the know-how and tools to work towards more independence, to be able to set boundaries, reduce anxiety, and give more validation to yourself.
In the times we live in right now, narcissism is more apparent than ever.
Lies, changing of the narrative and goalposts, and empty promises have permeated media, government, and the individuals who are in charge.
What was more hidden and seemed to happen on a more individual level is now happening left, right, and center.
I have said it before: trauma is the pandemic.
It is only by understanding and working through our emotional residue, and adjusting our default fight, flight, please-appease, and freeze responses to healthy levels, that we can start to heal.
Here is a preview of the intro of this course to give you an idea of how this program is structured and what you are getting. Have a look inside!
If you have been subject to narcissistic abuse, you will likely have found that you have suffered shaming, been made to feel worthless, had to deal with control, subjugation, and a continuous invasion of your personal boundaries.
These are some of the personality traits of an unresolved fight-anger response as acted out by a narcissist.
In turn, you had to adapt to survive, to a please-appease response to minimize or avoid further abuse.
These two responses go hand in glove.
Once these patterns are clearly described, I discuss what is needed to reverse these patterns to assist recovery.
In the field since 2002, I have helped thousands of people, through individual sessions, to make significant change in their personal well being. Additionally, I have reached many more through my insightful, accurate, and descriptive writings about the harrowing conditions of Complex Trauma and PTSD, and have pointed the way towards what can be done about it in order to heal.
My unique approach focuses on containing, regulating and processing, dissociation, the fight-flight-freeze-please responses, and re-learning boundaries and vulnerability.
I’ll be honored to work with you and help you make real progress towards recovery!
First and foremost, this course will outline the symbiotic relationship between the please-appease and the fight-anger (narcissistic) survival response. Outlining these dynamics will help move you out of cognitive dissonance, and pave the way for the next steps of recovery.
Once recognition of the abuse you go through or have gone through is in place, your next challenge is to gradually become more assertive and give voice and action to what you don’t want, to start with, and eventually to what you do want.
This isn’t an easy task if your survival response has rested on being a please-appeaser and when you defaulted to adapt, submit, and subjugate in order to survive.
Both through the video conversations and the somatic guided meditations in this course, I will help you to:
Create Awareness of The Various Forms & Expressions of Narcissistic Abuse
Undo Cognitive Dissonance & Start to Recognize Narcissistic Abuse for What It Is
Address Codependency & Make Steps Towards Being More Independent Emotionally & Financially
Confront Anxiety & Discomfort Related to The Fear of Rejection & The Need to Belong & How to Overcome That
Start to Set Boundaries to Help Lower Anxiety
Work On Your Containment To Be Able to Process Emotions That Will Come Up
Remove Yourself From An Abusive Environment Through Setting Boundaries & Giving Validation To Self
Be Able To Differentiate Better Between “Other” & “Self” Through Healthier Boundaries
Access & Use Anger Constructively as Boundaries
Create An Environment That Does NOT Rely On Narcissistic Codependency & Is Overall Conducive to Your Health & Well-Being
This course goes deeply into the aspects of the please-appeasing response and how you can recover from and balance out that particular survival response.
This course will help move you through the stages of starting to recognize narcissistic abuse, facing the discomfort and anxiety of rejection or not belonging, and creating the ability to set boundaries and/or remove yourself from direct abuse.
Get access to this 6-module, 13 chapters of video content and summary videos, fully edited pdf transcripts, & somatic guided recovery techniques & meditations.
Your purchase will give you lifetime access, including any future updates!
Click on each heading below to see what’s inside
Click on the heading below to see what’s inside
1 Isolation and the imposing of reality;
2 Walking on eggshells and narcissistic rage;
3 Codependency and the attraction to the abuser;
4 Shaming and smear campaigning of the narcissist;
5 Dis-empowerment and the need for narcissistic supply;
6 The empath as the please-appeaser;
7 Setting boundaries to lower anxiety;
8 Recognizing the cast of characters in narcissistic abuse;
9 The golden child, “flying monkeys,” and abuse by proxy;
10 Containment and the processing of emotion;
11 Strategies and personal situations related to narcissistic abuse;
12 Exercises to get in touch with your anger;
13 Removing yourself from abuse is a boundary;
14 Brain function and the fawn response;
15 Threat, anxiety, and the creation of the please-appeaser;
16 The attachment to anxiety and the known;
17 The challenges of looking after yourself;
18 How healing depends on your environment;
19 Moving into the unknown, insecurity, and learning to trust;
20 Rewiring of the nervous system by expressing boundaries;
21 The fear of rejection when exploring boundaries;
22 Breaking the conditioning of the please-appease response;
23 Validating oneself through right language use;
24 Reenactment and reactivation;
25 Breakdowns, breakthroughs, and the need for persistence;
26 Differentiating between the other and yourself;
27 Starting with what you don’t want;
28 Reducing the amount of time you are stuck in an activation is healing;
29 Sadness as an inherent aspect of dissociation;
30 Renegotiating through re-parenting yourself;
31 Individual, inter-generational, and collective trauma;
32 Institutional Narcissistic Abuse;
33 The inner work preceding over “changing the world.”
This course goes deeply into the aspects of the please-appeasing response and how you can recover from and balance out that particular survival response.
This course will help move you through the stages of starting to recognize narcissistic abuse, facing the discomfort and anxiety of rejection or not belonging, and creating the ability to set boundaries and/or remove yourself from direct abuse.
Get access to this 6-module, 13 chapters of video content and summary videos, fully edited pdf transcripts, & somatic guided recovery techniques & meditations.
Your purchase will give you lifetime access, including any future updates!
Recovery and healing are a process where you start with an intention to want to heal and a commitment to want to put in the work, whatever it takes.
If you are ready to commit and do whatever it takes to create more independence, and start implementing the strategies and exercises, you will see results.
That is my promise to you; that if you are willing to learn from the material and apply what you are guided through in the somatic meditations, you will see improvements in your ability to set boundaries, to become emotionally more contained and balanced, and make significant steps forward in your recovery.
I have put in the work to make this program work for you, and I want you to feel confident about making this purchase and investment in yourself.
Here is a part of a conversation, describing the complexity of the fawn or please-appease response, that I pulled right out of the course content.
PS. If you scrolled right away to the bottom of this page, like I tend to do, here is the deal:
This course gives you the know-how and tools to work towards more independence, away from the codependency attachment to a narcissist. As a byproduct of the above, you will, in time, be able to be more financially and emotionally independent.
This course will help to give you the insights into why you please-appease, how that ties in with the need for belonging, and how that creates symptoms of attachment, anxiety, and depression.
Furthermore, you will be guided through the somatic meditations and exercises to rewire those survival responses and bring them to more healthy, balanced-out levels.
This course will go into how to gradually set boundaries, through accessing anger constructively, and how that will help you to reduce anxiety and dependence and how thereby you will give more validation to yourself.
This course comes with a 15-days money-back guarantee! I trust that you will give this course your best effort to make it work for you.
Last but not least, this offer goes for $297 today. The full retail price is $997
Included are 6-modules, 13 chapters, of video content and summary videos (+5 hours), edited transcripts of all video material, and somatic guided meditations and techniques to make real shifts on an emotional/somatic level.
Now is the time!
Start Your Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse Today!